You vs the guy she says not to worry about
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This is a classic example of a woman saying “no” when she really wants to say “yes”! However, when you learn to understand how women think, you realise that she feels she must say no so that you don’t think of her as being “too easy.” They want to know why a girl who is clearly enjoying the anticipation of sex would then say no to “going all the way” at the last minute. Sometimes, women feel under pressure to say what they’ve been brought up to believe is the “right” thing to say under certain circumstances, rather than say what’s really on their mind.Ī lot of the emails we get from guys who are confused over what women say and what they really mean tell a similar story of making out with a girl and then her saying “no” just when things appear to be going really well. Watch this video by Dan Bacon (founder of The Modern Man) to understand why being really nice to a woman often results in being rejected… She did see him as a nice guy, but that isn’t enough for most women to want to have sex with a guy. The answer was simple: She wasn’t attracted to him, but she did like him as a friend. He wanted to know why she always said nice things to him but didn’t seem to mean any of them because she was never available to go on a date with him. For example: A guy once contacted The Modern Man to explain that he had asked a girl out on a date because she was always saying what a nice guy he was, but ever since he’d asked her out she’d always been too busy to make any definite plans. After all, why would a woman hook up with a bad boy if she actually wants a nice guy? You might have then been left wondering whether or not she was telling the truth or if women now prefer bad boys over nice guys. Have you ever had a woman say something to you, only to discover later on that what she said wasn’t really what she meant?įor example: She said, “I want a nice guy who cares about me and treats me like a princess,” but she then lusted after and hooked up with a bad boy, jerk or asshole who didn’t treat her well.